我愛白鬍子

渾然天成的裝扮，充滿夏天與運動風的性格

即便白鬍子也只更添增了老人的帥氣

雖然一輩子也不會有這種張大千式的鬍鬚

至少可以從他的鞋子，稍短的牛仔褲

粉紅色襯衫跟卡其的西裝外套上偷得一些靈感

也許，還要再添購一台祖父級的腳踏車吧

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(3) Hi I am Hao, from Taiwan

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