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女為悅己者容,士呢?

對準流行最大的元素之一是視覺效果,是如何將自己的風格品味用視覺的角度呈現 當然這並不是全部,一個人對飲食,音樂以至於生活態度都是可以非常流行的,但所謂 佛要金裝,人要衣裝,一個人若要被稱為流行的一份子,在穿衣搭配這方面絕對不能忽略。 

但即然我今天沒有準備任何圖片,自然這不是個穿搭講堂了,我想要說的是,我們認真的把自己穿的流行也好,前衛也罷,是為自己還是為了別人? 還是,為了自己也為了別人? 所謂的為自己難道只是攬鏡自照時的滿足感嗎? 如果是的話那我們根本沒有必要穿出門,每天站在鏡前擺弄就行了。 

但有可能只為了別人嗎? 是為了哪個別人? 為了能悅己的那個他人而打扮,還是純粹的想要在擁擠的東區巷弄裡鶴立雞群,與"眾"不同? 對我而言,兩著皆是,也都不是。 

穿的fashionable是對自己也對別人的視覺饗宴,是對自我的了解也是了解別人的方式,所以可以說是為了自己也為了別人,我穿上自己所認同的衣服褲子鞋子配件出門。 

但從另一個角度,我們穿衣服也許早已不為了所謂的自己或他人,而只是單純的行使一個不同社會背景下形成的行為,就像一個習慣,一個在消費文化的社會下被養成的習慣,就像點頭問好或是記得守時,不要插隊之類的社會規範。

我們每天投入時間金錢的穿搭自己其實無形的正在演化一個新的社會規範,一個看似奔放無所限制,其實是更為繁複,變動並且更為嚴苛的儀式。 也許吧,不管是自己,他人,或是這個社會,想盡辦法搭上流行的列車,並且盡量坐在前座的趨勢已然蔓延。

明天,從區別春夏與秋冬的流行的關鍵點來看看fashion。

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